1 - Spend some time with your children each of them separately, Whether to take up with someone and lunch outside the home or exercise walking with another, Or just going out with them each separately, It is important that you make them feel appreciated every one of them between you and him without the intervention of his other brothers or putting them in one word, where competing every one of them in front of you to win the title and remain there always lag involved without feeling it.
2 - I'm inside them self-confidence and encourage you to them your appreciation for their efforts they are making and not only assess the results, as most of us do.
3 - celebrated the achievements of today, For example, I do a lunch special that your son is so and so has enacted today, Or because the last participated in the football team at school or because the third got a good grade on the exam, So that each of them feel that you are interested in him and the events of his life, Not do so with only one of them, even if the other does not pass the events of a private search in his life and will surely find anything, Remember that what you're doing something symbolic and act accordingly so as not to provoke jealousy between your children Vinafssoa you then become enmity rather than Ithabwa and share each other.
4 - The positive thinking that your children be a positive example, instead of that Tatb your son because he came back from school and sat down to lunch, a dirty and untidy Tell him "it looks like you had a great time at school today."
5 - Exit photo album of your children when they were young and tell them stories about this period that do not recall them.
6 - mentioned something you have learned them
7 - Tell them how you feel that something wonderful that you are a parent and how you like the way that growing up with.
8 - Make your kids choose for themselves what Ilbssouna so you show them how you respect their decisions.
9 - merged with your children at play, for example if your hands get dirty like the colors of water, clay and so on.
10 - I know the agenda of your children and their teachers and friends So do not ask them when they return from study in general, "what did you do today," but what did you ask why so and so and so did the school feels that you observer of the details of his life and that you are interested. 11 - When your son asks you to talk with you and talk to him and you are busy in something else like a mother when he spoke of her child when she is cooking or a look at the TV or so, but give him all your focus and look in his eyes which tell you.
12 - Share in for lunch at least once a week, And then exchange you and your children to talk about the events of the week, and I repeat, not only hear them but also tell them what happened to you.
13 - type them in the paper a small word of love or encouragement, or joke and put them in bed if you are going and they were asleep or in their school bag until they feel you're thinking of them even when you are not present with them.
14 - I hear your child indirectly which does not exist (If raise the tone of your voice is in his room) love him and admire his personality.
15 - When your child draws a small graphics put them in a special place in the home and Achaaram proud of you.
16 - do not behave with your children the way they were acting out your parents with you without thinking it could you fall into errors of the devastating psychological son.
17 - instead of saying to your son you did it the wrong way to tell him not to do so in the following way and knowing the right thing.
18 - made up password or sign highlighting your love for your son knows no one except you.
19 - tried to start a new day where the sun rises every forget the mistakes of the past Every new day brings with it a new opportunity that your prospect can be in love with your son more than ever before and help you to discover his talents.
20 - Cuddle your children, and before them and tell them you love them every day, no matter how many so they are in need without regard to his age were young or adults or even married and you have them grandchildren.
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